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Become Unhookable
Being Hooks free, even just for a moment, can be a totalic ecstatic experience in your life that people go to remote ashrams for, take elusive medicine, or pray for relief from the creator for.
You can only become Unhookable at the level you are currently playing. You cannot become yet Unhookable for the next level of the game of life, the one your not playing in yet.
The level that your not playing in yet, because you, the current you, cannot reach yet.
You first need to transform. The new you can play in the next level. The next you is capable, magical and unhookable enough to deal with what is out there, in the next layer of life.
When you step into your next level, a new challenge appears and with them, new kinds of hooks.
Maybe hooks of a different size, stronger, more cutting into the flesh.
Maybe hooks from different people. for example: maybe your parents hook you now.
But next layers are your trainers. Than maybe political groups. Than maybe you clients.
Than maybe your whole culture is hooking you.
Maybe the level of difficulty coming from your hooks is because they come in a more complex pattern, for an example, your in a situation where hooks are thrown at you from all sides, at the same time. You feel like your in a sand storm of hooks. With one of them you could have delt, but they all come together.
Maybe a hook that touches a deeper layer, a layer you didn't know you have yet.
For example a caring for someone intimate, your partner, now the bigger caring and heart open, the easier the hook penetrates and stuck in soft flesh.
As you transform, life transforms.
And with every expansion, you receive another invitation to step into the adventure of becoming even more Unhookable.
Becoming Unhookable is not a one-time fix.
It is a shift in identity — in how you perceive hooks, how you relate to them, and how you navigate them across your 5 bodies. With this practice of Becoming Unhookable, the next layer, next level, will never be unmanageable.
One of the most powerful ways to initiate that shift and anchor it in your system is to step into an Unhookable Initiation Training.
What it means to get hooked ?
I know that I got hooked when :
I became reactive
I didn't notice that I was hooked
I tried to hook other people
I Stopped being present
My ‘Now’ became too big
I just want to run away,
I become adaptive
Your hooked when you didn't notice one of the hooks land in you, or you noticed but don't know what kind of hook it is.
Hooks are Energetic/ Emotional/ Physical/Intellectual/ or Archetypal effects, that create a compulsory reaction in you.
Which means something outside of you affects you, outside your ability to reponed to it. So it takes your Adult respons- ability away.
Hooks can come from outside you; for example, the Shadow Guide hooks are impulses inside you that are created after someone gave you an "insult" or a "compliment" - "Your hair is too oily," "Did you lose some weight?"
Your Shadow Guide want to play along. He hooks the other person Shadow Guide back with an insult. It returns a bigger compliment. It plays small, or big, to manipulate the other person. And these are just a few examples.
Hooks can come from the news, from the culture, from the weather.
Hooks can come from inside of you, like Child Emotions or Box Buttons being pressed, it all happens inside of you.
The understanding it comes from inside just help to differentiate which hook it is.
How does it look ?When people get hooked ?
Here is 1 example
When sharing intentions turns into a spiritual fight
Different hooks
Explore the different types of hooks that can hook you !
Gremlin Hooks
Parent Voices
Box Buttons
Demon Sentences
Physical, Mental,Energetic, Emotional, Archetypal
Imbalances
Emotional Trigger
Become Unhookable
Become Unhookable
Hooks, and how they get you Unfree.
Unhookable Initiation, an Interview preparing for Module 2 Space holder trianing
Become Unhookable ! A conversation with Julia Neumann
About
Unhookable Initiation
Training
𝑾𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒖𝒏𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒂𝒃𝒍𝒆, 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒑𝒐𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒃𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒆𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒏𝒂𝒗𝒊𝒈𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒑𝒂𝒄𝒆,
You can receive more gold from the space holders in front of you,
You can connect to your clients no matter what they throw at you.
The moments when you lose your center, get triggered, become reactive, stop being present, and get dragged outside the "water where you can navigate freely", 𝒘𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒊𝒕 𝒈𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒅.
Like when :
Your mother tells you you look fat, and you think about it every time you eat.
Your partner “forgets” to say goodbye as he walks out, and you have a conversation in your head about it for the whole day.
Your client who was not even present when you started asks you repeatedly to explain yourself.
𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘦𝘹𝘢𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘴 𝘸𝘦 𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘮𝘦𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘴𝘮𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘦𝘥, 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴? Also, How are you hooking other people ?
𝘞𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘤𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘦 𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘨𝘪𝘦𝘴, 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 ‘𝘣𝘶𝘵𝘵𝘰𝘯𝘴’ 𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘶𝘴𝘩𝘦𝘥, 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘵𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘨𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘥, 𝘷𝘰𝘪𝘤𝘦𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘰𝘶𝘵𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘢𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘴 𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘢 𝘣𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘭𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘬.
𝙅𝙤𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 5-weeks series 𝙐𝙣𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙠𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 :
- Have high-level fun discovering your specific hooking strategies
- Unbundle your hooks with experiments and healing processes.
- Shift your identity relating to being hooked and become
Unhookable.
-Practice Unhookable tools that would leave a gap between you and where the hooks land.
𝘞𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘭𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘚𝘱𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘰𝘯 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘦𝘥, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘤 𝘜𝘯𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘵𝘰𝘰𝘭𝘴, 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘤𝘦𝘴.
Part of the training is in conversation and part is Playing with improvisation practices in a team, to learn about your hooks.
𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧:
This is Module 2 of a 1-year SPACE HOLDER TRAINING, with different separate modules. You can join this as a separate module, or still jump on board the full training.
Requirements: You can join if you did an Anger CLUB or some other form of Anger work training, or if you are comfortable navigating your 4-feeling.
And if you set your intention of being a space holder, even if not in the form of holding workshops.
Part of this research was sourced from Possibility Management, and upgraded since than, including the map you see there, this is a Connect map. read more about becoming Unhookable on their website, which provides profound insights and experiments.
Here is a map we deveopled in the Unhookable Space Holder Training in 2024 its about the way Hookability happens, and what to do with it.
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