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Become Unhookable
Being Hooks free, even just for a moment, can be a totalic ecstatic experience in your life that people go to remote ashrams for, take elusive medicine, or pray for relief from the creator for.
You can only become Unhookable at the level you are currently playing. You cannot become yet Unhookable for the next level of the game of life, the one your not playing in yet.
The level that your not playing in yet, because you, the current you, cannot reach yet.
You first need to transform. The new you can play in the next level. The next you is capable, magical and unhookable enough to deal with what is out there, in the next layer of life.
When you step into your next level, a new challenge appears and with them, new kinds of hooks.
Maybe hooks of a different size, stronger, more cutting into the flesh.
Maybe hooks from different people. for example: maybe your parents hook you now.
But next layers are your trainers. Than maybe political groups. Than maybe you clients.
Than maybe your whole culture is hooking you.
Maybe the level of difficulty coming from your hooks is because they come in a more complex pattern, for an example, your in a situation where hooks are thrown at you from all sides, at the same time. You feel like your in a sand storm of hooks. With one of them you could have delt, but they all come together.
Maybe a hook that touches a deeper layer, a layer you didn't know you have yet.
For example a caring for someone intimate, your partner, now the bigger caring and heart open, the easier the hook penetrates and stuck in soft flesh.
As you transform, life transforms.
And with every expansion, you receive another invitation to step into the adventure of becoming even more Unhookable.
Becoming Unhookable is not a one-time fix.
It is a shift in identity — in how you perceive hooks, how you relate to them, and how you navigate them across your 5 bodies. With this practice of Becoming Unhookable, the next layer, next level, will never be unmanageable.
One of the most powerful ways to initiate that shift and anchor it in your system is to step into an Unhookable Initiation Training.
What it means to get hooked ?
I know that I got hooked when :
I became reactive
I didn't notice that I was hooked
I tried to hook other people
I Stopped being present
My ‘Now’ became too big
I just want to run away,
I become adaptive
Your hooked when you didn't notice one of the hooks land in you, or you noticed but don't know what kind of hook it is.
Hooks are Energetic/ Emotional/ Physical/Intellectual/ or Archetypal effects, that create a compulsory reaction in you.
Which means something outside of you affects you, outside your ability to reponed to it. So it takes your Adult respons- ability away.
Hooks can come from outside you; for example, the Shadow Guide hooks are impulses inside you that are created after someone gave you an "insult" or a "compliment" - "Your hair is too oily," "Did you lose some weight?"
Your Shadow Guide want to play along. He hooks the other person Shadow Guide back with an insult. It returns a bigger compliment. It plays small, or big, to manipulate the other person. And these are just a few examples.
Hooks can come from the news, from the culture, from the weather.
Hooks can come from inside of you, like Child Emotions or Box Buttons being pressed, it all happens inside of you.
The understanding it comes from inside just help to differentiate which hook it is.
How does it look ?When people get hooked ?
Here is 1 example
When sharing intentions turns into a spiritual fight
Different hooks
Explore the different types of hooks that can hook you !
Gremlin Hooks
Parent Voices
Box Buttons
Demon Sentences
Physical, Mental,Energetic, Emotional, Archetypal
Imbalances
Emotional Trigger
Become Unhookable
Become Unhookable
Hooks, and how they get you Unfree.
Unhookable Initiation, an Interview preparing for Module 2 Space holder trianing
Become Unhookable ! A conversation with Julia Neumann
About
Unhookable Initiation
Training
๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐,
You can receive more gold from the space holders in front of you,
You can connect to your clients no matter what they throw at you.
The moments when you lose your center, get triggered, become reactive, stop being present, and get dragged outside the "water where you can navigate freely", ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ .
Like when :
Your mother tells you you look fat, and you think about it every time you eat.
Your partner “forgets” to say goodbye as he walks out, and you have a conversation in your head about it for the whole day.
Your client who was not even present when you started asks you repeatedly to explain yourself.
๐๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ซ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐ฆ๐น๐ข๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ธ๐ฆ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ค๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ค๐ฉ๐ข๐ฏ๐ช๐ด๐ฎ๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ฅ, ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด? Also, How are you hooking other people ?
๐๐ฆ ๐ฅ๐ช๐ด๐ค๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ด๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ๐จ๐ช๐ฆ๐ด, ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ญ๐ด๐ฐ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ‘๐ฃ๐ถ๐ต๐ต๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด’ ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฅ, ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ ๐ต๐ณ๐ช๐จ๐จ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐ง๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฎ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ช๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฅ, ๐ท๐ฐ๐ช๐ค๐ฆ๐ด ๐ง๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต๐ด๐ช๐ฅ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฏ๐บ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ข๐ด๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ด ๐ต๐ช๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ข ๐ฃ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ค๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฌ.
๐ ๐ค๐๐ฃ ๐ฉ๐๐ 5-weeks series ๐๐ฃ๐๐ค๐ค๐ ๐๐๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐ง๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐ค :
- Have high-level fun discovering your specific hooking strategies
- Unbundle your hooks with experiments and healing processes.
- Shift your identity relating to being hooked and become
Unhookable.
-Practice Unhookable tools that would leave a gap between you and where the hooks land.
๐๐ฆ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ข๐ช๐ญ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ช๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐๐ฑ๐ข๐ค๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐ธ๐ข๐ฏ๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ฅ, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ด๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ค๐ช๐ง๐ช๐ค ๐๐ฏ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฃ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ด, ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ช๐ณ ๐ด๐ฑ๐ข๐ค๐ฆ๐ด.
Part of the training is in conversation and part is Playing with improvisation practices in a team, to learn about your hooks.
๐ช๐๐๐ง:
This is Module 2 of a 1-year SPACE HOLDER TRAINING, with different separate modules. You can join this as a separate module, or still jump on board the full training.
Requirements: You can join if you did an Anger CLUB or some other form of Anger work training, or if you are comfortable navigating your 4-feeling.
And if you set your intention of being a space holder, even if not in the form of holding workshops.
Part of this research was sourced from Possibility Management, and upgraded since than, including the map you see there, this is a Connect map. read more about becoming Unhookable on their website, which provides profound insights and experiments.
Here is a map we deveopled in the Unhookable Space Holder Training in 2024 its about the way Hookability happens, and what to do with it.
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